Dear Miley Cyrus

Dear Miley Cyrus,

I know that you are an entertainer. I know that you make money by performing and any kind of publicity is great for famous people. I have heard you say in reference to some of your behavior that, "You were making history, it's no big deal because that's just who I am."

I can see you are "trying to reinvent yourself, and shrug off the Disney Hannah Montana image that you made millions on. You want to "evolve" and you thought doing something drastic was the best course of action. Your quote, "Every time I do anything, I want to remember, 'This is what separates me from everybody else,' I have this freedom to do whatever I want because I'm starting as a new artist now."

You are right, as an adult, you are free to do whatever you want..even if that means making negative impressions on millions of little girls who grew up watching your show and concerts. You have no moral responsibility when those same girls can't separate your new "behaviors" from the your old ones as a role model on a family show. The "old" you tried to figure out how to be a teenager and make the right choices. The new you sells empty promises of misusing your sexuality and outrageous behavior that will translate as being "cool". When all those 10-14 years old females start mimicking your "evolved" self and get themselves into trouble because they don't understand the consequences of dressing like that or "twerking" on the wrong person, you don't have to feel bad because really you are just an "image" right?

I also know, as a parent, it is my responsibility to not let my children look at stars in Hollywood and believe they should act like them or put them on pedestals. But to be honest Miley, I am a little sad to have to tell my daughter that the girl whose posters hang in her room and CDs she has collected over the years is no more. I am trying to help her understand that she is not allowed to buy this new artist's music or watch anything that you create now because it's not appropriate for her anymore. I am not mad, I know Hannah Montana had to grow up sometime. I just wish she didn't have to change so drastic that now she is almost unrecognizable and someone who I definitely don't want my kids to look up to.

From a Kind of Sad Mom....


   

Christmas Crazy!

This time of year can get pretty hectic with all the parties, kid’s concerts, present buying, decorating, baking, cooking, Elf on the shelf, Santa, advent, and all the other stuff that goes on with the Christmas season. It’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of activities to try to build memories for our families. We have the best intentions…really. According to the Facebook posts there are women out there they do it all, effortlessly?

But the stress of “doing it all” is just that stressful! Pile that on with heaps of guilt for snapping at our kids, getting frustrated at our husbands for not helping enough, and the exhaustion from cramming everything into our tight schedules and the joy of Christmas becomes replaced with the “franticness” of the getter dun mentality. “I will rest after December 25th.” Cause getting ready for New Year’s Eve/Day, taking down decorations, and starting our resolutions doesn’t consume any time right?

On the way to school today God spoke to my heart, “Kimberley, remember, It’s not what you do, it is who you are! Your family will remember the gifts of hugs, kisses, love, and time spent together. All that other stuff is not bad but it is certainly not necessary for your kids to experience the real meaning of Christmas. They are watching who you are more than all the great things you do for them.”

The birth of Jesus is the reminder of the hope and future we have because of Him. Joy to the world the Lord has come!

“Don’t be afraid!” he said. “I bring you good news that will bring great joy to all people. The Savior—yes, the Messiah, the Lord—has been born today in Bethlehem, the city of David! And you will recognize him by this sign: You will find a baby wrapped snugly in strips of cloth, lying in a manger.” Suddenly, the angel was joined by a vast host of others—the armies of heaven—praising God and saying, “Glory to God in highest heaven, and peace on earth to those with whom God is pleased.” Luke 2:10-14