My Heroes

My pastor asked us to think about people in our lives who are everyday heroes. Someone who has made a difference to us like a coach, soldier, fireman, parent, friend, pastor and so on. That got me to thinking who are my heroes? Do I have just one or a few? What does an everyday hero look like to me?

The Webster Dictionary defines hero as 1) a: a mythological or legendary figure often of divine descent endowed with great strength or ability b: an illustrious warrior,  c: a man admired for his achievements and noble qualities d: one who shows great courage.

My husband is one of my heroes because of the way he loves me. His love had been consistent and solid for the last 16 years, even when I tried to scare him off, push him away or break up with him while we were dating, he has remained true in his love for me. His patience and grace gives me the support I need to face the world and deal with my issues. He is my hero because of the way he loves Jesus and tries to lead our family with Him as our center even when it is not comfortable or popular. He is my hero because he tries to treat others with respect and non-judgment even when they might deserve something harsher. He is my hero because he never expects me, or the house, or the kids to be perfect. 

My son Landen is also my hero with his courage to talk about his faith wherever he is and not be ashamed. He is my hero because he sings worship songs at the top of his lungs not caring who it bothers. He is my hero because at age five he told me that when he grows up he wants to bring water and build houses to people in Africa to people who need it. At age six he sat us down and forced us to take him seriously about baptism. At age seven he wrapped up some coloring pages because he said moms never get enough presents under the tree. At age eight he is truly a warrior for Christ in what he says and how he lives!

My Monday night people are my heroes. They show up to a small house, with a lady who doesn't cook and talks a lot, kids jumping all over them, and share their journeys with us. I have seen God work in their lives and am humbled by their support, trust, love, and grace. They show up not out of family guilt or because of the spectacular entertainment:) They come because of the relationships.

One of my heroes is a younger friend who went through very difficult times and had so much stolen from her. She handled herself with dignity, decorum, and strength beyond her years. She is my hero for not forgetting how to smile, having the courage to share and let others see her heart, and most importantly for her never giving up HOPE! 

I have many more everyday heroes.....these were the one who came to mind right now. I believe I will start "looking" to see the people who have impacted my life, shown courage in the face of adversity, or is fighting the good fight.